Community Guidelines

Vleesboek is built on consent, respect, privacy, and safety. These guidelines explain what's welcome and what's not. They apply to every member, on every surface of the Service.

Last updated: Last updated: January 2025

1. Welcome

Vleesboek is a private adults-only community where members can express themselves, connect with others, and explore content that matters to them — on their own terms. These guidelines are designed to keep the Service safe, supportive, and consensual for everyone 18 and over. By joining, you agree to follow them.

2. Core Values

  • Consent. Every interaction and every piece of content on the Service rests on informed, voluntary, and revocable consent.
  • Respect. Treat other members with dignity. Disagreement is fine; harassment, threats, and abuse are not.
  • Privacy.Respect others' privacy. Do not share private information about another person without their explicit consent.
  • Safety. Help us keep the Service safe for adults and free of harm, exploitation, and illegal content.

3. What's Welcome

The Service is a place for adults to:

  • share creative work, writing, art, photography, and media;
  • build communities around shared interests and identities;
  • connect through respectful, consensual conversation;
  • explore intimate and adult content where all parties have consented;
  • express themselves authentically, with appropriate content labels.

4. What's Prohibited

The following are not permitted on the Service. Violations may result in content removal, account suspension, permanent termination, and reporting to the appropriate authorities:

  • Minors / CSAM.Any content depicting, sexualizing, or promoting the exploitation of minors, including child sexual abuse material (CSAM). This is reported to NCMEC's CyberTipline and law enforcement without exception.
  • Non-consensual intimate imagery (NCII). Sharing intimate imagery of a person without their informed and ongoing consent, including deepfakes and stolen images.
  • Harassment. Targeted abuse, slurs, sustained intimidation, or organizing harassment campaigns against any person.
  • Threats. Threats of violence, harm, or doxxing against any person.
  • Doxxing. Publishing private identifying information (real name, home address, phone number, workplace) without consent.
  • Illegal content. Content that violates applicable law, including content promoting terrorism, weapons trafficking, drug sales, or sexual violence.
  • Bestiality. Any content depicting or promoting sexual acts involving animals.
  • Incest. Content depicting or promoting sexual acts between family members, including depicted or role-played scenarios involving minors.
  • Spam. Repeated unsolicited content, fake engagement, mass-DM campaigns, or coordinated inauthentic behavior.
  • Scams. Deceptive offers, money laundering, romance scams, investment scams, or phishing.
  • Malware. Distributing malware, ransomware, or malicious links.
  • Fraud. False identity, false verification, financial fraud, or impersonation for deception.
  • Impersonation. Pretending to be another real person or organization in a way that misleads others.
  • Hate. Promoting hatred, discrimination, or violence against any group based on race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, gender, disability, or other protected characteristic.
  • Underage conduct. Any attempt to circumvent the age requirement, including by a person under 18.

5. Adult Content Rules

Consensual adult content created by and for adults is permitted, subject to our Content Policy and Consent Policy. In summary:

  • all depicted individuals must be 18 or older and must have consented to creation and distribution;
  • content must be labeled with appropriate content warnings and NSFW markers;
  • content must respect withdrawal of consent and be removed promptly when consent is withdrawn;
  • content must not depict, suggest, or role-play non-consent, coercion, or underage participation.

6. Consent Requirements

When you upload intimate or explicit media, you attest that:

  • every identifiable person depicted has given informed, voluntary, and revocable consent;
  • you have the legal right to share that content;
  • you understand that consent may be withdrawn at any time and that you will remove the content promptly if asked;
  • all depicted individuals are 18 or older.

See our Consent Policy for full details.

7. Reporting

If you see content or conduct that violates these guidelines, please report it. You can:

  • use the in-app report action on any post, comment, profile, or message;
  • submit a takedown request for copyright, non-consensual intimate imagery, impersonation, or other complaints;
  • contact us directly via our contact page.

If you believe a minor is in danger or content depicts abuse of a minor, contact local law enforcement and report to NCMEC's CyberTipline (or your local equivalent) immediately.

8. Enforcement

We review reports promptly and may take action including:

  • removing content;
  • restricting distribution (e.g. blurring or removing from feeds);
  • issuing warnings;
  • requiring verification re-submission;
  • temporarily suspending accounts;
  • permanently terminating accounts;
  • reporting to law enforcement or NCMEC where required.

Urgent reports (for example, suspected CSAM) trigger immediate hiding of the content pending review.

9. Appeals

If you believe we made the wrong decision, you can appeal by contacting us through our contact page within 30 days of the decision. Include the case ID you received when the action was taken. We will review your appeal and respond as soon as practical.

Changes to these guidelines

We may update these guidelines from time to time. Material changes will be announced through the Service.